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學會放棄

文/巫石吉

你不可能什麼都得到,所以你要能學會放棄,放棄並不意味著失去,因為只有放棄才會有另一種獲得。

要想採一束清新的山花,就得放棄城市的舒適。
要想做一名登山健兒,就得放棄咖啡和可樂。
想有永遠的掌聲,就得放棄眼前的虛榮。

梅、菊放棄安逸和舒適,才能得到笑傲霜雪的美麗。
大地放棄亮麗斑斕的黃昏,才會迎來旭日東升的曙光。
船舶放棄安全的港灣,才能在深海中收穫滿船的魚蝦。

今天的放棄,是為了明天的得到。做大事者不會只憑著一時的得失,他都知道放棄,如何放棄,放棄些什麼?

所謂大捨大得,小捨小得,不捨不得,多捨才能多得,人生的過程,不就是從無到有,從有到很有,而後慢慢放手給兒孫們,又從很有到漸漸少有,最後又是一無所有。

我曾經聽人說:年少要闖,年輕要狂,中年要養,老年要放。

學會放棄吧!朋友,放棄失戀帶來的痛楚;放棄屈辱留下的憤恨;放棄心中所有語言的負荷;放棄無謂精力的爭吵;放棄對權力的角逐;放棄對金錢的貪欲;放棄對虛名的爭……

放棄,是一種境界。

漫漫人生路,只有學會放棄,才能向前邁進,才能不斷有所收穫。一個人倘若將一生的所得都背負在身,那麼縱然他有一副鋼筋鐵骨,也會被壓倒在地。

什麼時候學會放棄,什麼時候學會了成熟。


I am a greedy person,I want everything,I want get everything.

So today, I got lots of pressure and even no time for myself.

More worse is that I always can't concentrate in one thing.

Sucessful people always know when to give up, that is a big assignment for me to learn in college.

I don't want to be the people who know many things but doesn't master in one.

That is so pitty.

It's rarelly for me to face this kind of big dicision.

Recently, there are many problems comes to me.

I ask many people for advice and I consider it deeply.

Finally I ask myself"What is the most important to me?".

This skills is learn from E.M.C. association.

It's a great tip for me who always hesitate can't make dicisions.

What is the most important to me?

I always think about myself, I just want myself be better and usually ignore the people who close to me.

[Including my family ,my friends .....]

I'm not deliberately to please everyone, I just want to help if I have capability.

Sorry that I didn't accompany to [......]

If I lose you guys,in this period of time,I don't have memories with you guys,then doing s.th just for myself it's not have any meaning.

I am grateful to having you guys, I always have you guys support ,adivce , accompany.

Love you everybody

Although give up in E.M.C association, I will still have same attitude and target, it's learnig and growing.

I will take action to improve what E.M.C association give me.

In these three month.It's is short, but it's really worth. 

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  • 雅君
  • 加油唷^^
  • 你也要加油!學會放棄~Do you know what I mean?

    joannaling 於 2009/05/14 22:38 回覆

  • ~雨林~
  • 加油阿~
    相信自己ㄉ選擇!!
  • Yes!!!謝勒~

    joannaling 於 2009/05/14 22:39 回覆

  • 灝
  • 選妳所愛
    愛妳所選

    一旦確定
    堅持到底

    加油!!
    :)
  • 是ㄉ..學友!
    我會全力以赴~~
    你也是呀~

    joannaling 於 2009/05/14 22:40 回覆